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Letting Your Camper [almost] Pack Themselves

by Sarah Kelley

We are a little more than five weeks out from the start of summer camp.  This means we are beginning to see the full spectrum of packing styles.  There are one or two campers who are so excited to come to camp, they are already mostly packed.  Their favorite, old T-shirt and creek shoes are already stowed away carefully in their trunk.  There are also moms who have the packing list tacked up on a fridge or board with items still needed highlighted to be picked up on future shopping trips.  There are also moms (like me) who typically start doing laundry the day before leaving for a trip and haven’t even thought about packing for camp yet.  Wherever you find yourself on the spectrum of planning and packing, here are three reasons why your campers should be included in the packing process.

DSCN34311. They will know what they have, and when they should wear it.
Bought a special pair of shoes for water activities? Want your nine-year-old son to know where his extra underwear is?  Does your daughter have a pair of pants that would be great for a long hike but terrible for tree climbing?  Packing with your camper is a great time to have these conversations in a way they will be more likely to remember what they are supposed to wear when (and yes, please change your underwear daily).

DSCN35692. Begin developing confidence before camp even begins.
Summer camp at Asbury Hills is a great place for campers to explore and worship in God’s creation, try new things, make new friends, and more.  All of these things help campers develop confidence in who they are and what they can do.  If your child has never had to pack for a trip before, this is a great way to begin developing confidence in new skills.  Give them the list, and have them begin to pick out their clothes, towels, and shampoo. (While being there to be sure that her brand new glittery boots don’t get packed, but things like her toothbrush do.)

DSCN36393. They will be able to pack their stuff back up at the end of the week.
Being a former camp counselor myself, this may actually the most important reason to let your campers pack themselves for camp.  Most moms and dads I know have packing down to an art form.  If you fold the sheets in thirds before rolling them, socks go in the ziploc bag, outfits are folded together with the t-shirt on top – it leaves just enough room to slide the Bible in before zipping the bag up.  The problem with this is, mom and dad won’t be there on Friday to pack everything back up.  So what typically happen is one of two things.  The counselor in the cabin ends up packing everyone’s bags which takes infinitely more time OR extra items that no longer fit inside the allocated suitcase get stuffed in pillowcases, backpacks, etc.  If your campers packs themselves before camp begins, it greatly increases the likelihood they will be able to pack themselves back up to come home. And bonus points – it also increases the likelihood your stuff won’t end up here.


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Asbury Hills – More Fun than Disney World

By Sarah Kelley
What comes to mind when you think about the most magical place on earth? Most would yell Disney World! (Although you are reading this blog so maybe you have already jumped ahead of me and yelled camp.) After each week of summer camp, we send out parent surveys to continually evaluate and improve our summer programs. Without fail, each summer we receive several responses from parents saying their son/daughter says camp at Asbury Hills was more fun than Disney World. I take that as one of the highest compliments we could receive.  It’s nothing against the mouse. Disney really is a magical place, and with a two-year old daughter obsessed with Mickey Mouse, the day is coming soon for me when we plan a trip of our own there.


So what is it about Asbury Hills that makes campers say it is better than Disney World? Is the Wet Willie really more fun than Splash Mountain?

wet willie

Does the zipline canopy tour beat the Rock and Rollercoaster?

canopy tour

Does the giant swing beat The Twilight Zone Tower of Terror?

giant swing

Maybe they do, but I think it has less to do with the activities and more to do with the intangibles that Asbury Hills offers. While you will bump into people from all over the world in Disney, chances are you won’t get to stay in cabin with them and make real friendships. And besides the occasional stranger you may ask for directions, there aren’t many opportunities for teamwork to happen at a theme park. But I think the biggest difference is we give our campers a chance to ask lots of questions, be a leader but also learn to follow, to solve problems, to try something new, and overall develop and be confident in who they are as an individual. And that’s something that not even the most magical place on earth can offer.

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